-burden of unforgiveness could be the heaviest burden that people carry
-forgiveness is releasing the debt that the person owes even if we feel that the person deserves it
-when we remember the grace of forgiveness we receive, we will also then release that forgiveness to others
-its bitterness and resentment that cause us spiritual dry
-shut our heart to receive the grave from God
-divine forgiveness
-but this is so by the cost of Jesus dieing for us on the cross
-if damage unrepairable, surrender it to Jesus
-self forgiveness is an act of surrender
-we are not to be naive
-separate forgiveness and reconciliation, especially those that are hurtful
-forgiveness is not going back to the initial relationship/ state
-forgiveness is a mental, not feeling