1. Performative prayer
-we are unable to pray on our own
-we are to build relationship with Jesus... So that when we are the lowest point in life, we can confidently say that "though we walk through the valley, we fear no evil cos Jesus is with us"
-motivation: first is to please God cos He is God, very distant and uninterested... Second is to please God cos of love
-what God wants from us is a faith prayer
-God wants us a relational communication
-prayer not as a tool but a relationship conversation
-God does not ignore our feelings.. He refines them
-engaging with God.. ask God how He feels about our petition
-we won't see it's reward from God until we know that God is a good God