Alr single at 40s, meaning alr destined to be single life and how to cope with the loneliness

   Loneliness does not depend on whether married or not... Can be married but lonely.. we can be  in a room of thousands but feel lonely too

   Let God fill us.. have a relationship with God and it is a relationship 

   Love everyone and be genuine... Ppl have eyes and are looking...

   Surrender our desires to God

   If we were meant to marry, the right 

How to we know if we are meant to be single

   We are called to be married, raise children to

   Some ppl are called to single.. Jesus is single, apostle John is single

      Won't have the desire of being attached

      Won't be envy of ppl with family

How to be attractive

   Cultivate the fruit of the spirit... Be joyful, committed in friendship, generous

Is it ok to date a non Christian

   It's not a good idea... It's good to have the de spiritual temperature

   Thought can be a Christian, but could have different level of values (such as attending church, etc)

What happen when we are angry with God is God didn't give us a spouse

   It's ok to be angry and express to God.. we are to be honest to God

-Marriage is impt, but it's not as impt as relationship with God

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Marriage is a loving compromise

Should we talk abt money marriage

No secrets in marriage

The one better in finance should take charge

Where do we draw the line with friends of the opposite gender

No secrets in the marriage.. spouse should only know abt the friendship but also ok with it

Nv share something to another person in the opposite gender that you won't tell your spouse

Is it ok to have a best friend of opposite gender

No... Though not physically, but being emotionally attached is unfaithfulness

How much freedom is the measurement of freedom for teenage children

   Not only freedom but also respect

   God is the father, Adam and Eve is the children

      God gave Adam and Eve the freedom to make their own decisions even God knows that the mistake they make will corrupt the whole world

         God didn't come with a cane or anger but lovingly

Allow the children to make their own decisions and face the consequences

   Cultivate God's value to them, pray and allow the Holy Spirit to move